Kelvin Loh

The writing.

On leadership, fitness, building companies, and living a life worth earning. Every essay keeps its number for good.

2026

  1. No. 011我祝你，痛苦够多Oct 2026 · 中文我找了很多年简单又快乐的成长方法。黄仁勋祝学生痛苦够多，孟子两千多年前讲过同样的话。苦尽甘来，甘一直在苦的另一边。
  2. No. 010I Stopped Trusting My WillpowerOct 2026Every month I knew the deadline a week ahead, and every month I still did the work at the last minute. Trying harder never fixed it. Moving the deadline did.
  3. No. 010我不再相信自己的意志力Oct 2026 · 中文一个礼拜前就知道的 deadline，我还是拖到最后。逼自己更努力没用，把 deadline 搬近才有用。
  4. No. 009The Strongest Person Picks the Lowest SeatJul 2026I thought the CEO's seat was at the top of the pyramid. Then every decision started queuing at my desk, and I finally understood: that was not proof I mattered. It was proof I was doing it wrong.
  5. No. 009真正的强者，选最低的位置Jul 2026 · 中文我以为 CEO 的位置在金字塔顶。直到每件事都排队等我拍板才看懂：位置放得越低，团队站得越高。
  6. No. 008Reading Is Against Human NatureJul 2026I owe books half of who I am. I still had to admit that reading fights human nature, and that the most human skill of all, communication, might be better learned through play.
  7. No. 008读书是反人性的事Jul 2026 · 中文我很爱书，也是书把我堆成今天的样子。但我得承认，读书是反人性的。最要紧的那门功夫，沟通，可能要用「玩」来学。
  8. No. 007Watch What They Do, Not What They SayJun 2026People can't tell you what they need. They answer from what they already know. The truth is rarely in what they say. It is in what they actually do.
  9. No. 007别听他说什么，要看他做什么Jun 2026 · 中文绝大多数的人是说不出自己真正需要什么。他们只会从已经见过的东西里挑答案。真相很少会从他们嘴里说出来，但实际行为最为真实。
  10. No. 006The One Skill No Book Could Teach MeJun 2026I thought growing people was something you could study. It turned out to be the one skill no book could teach me. I had to be polished by the work itself, one coach at a time.
  11. No. 006书教不会我的那件事Jun 2026 · 中文我以为带人是一门可以读会的学问。后来才发现，那是书教不会我的一件事。我只能在一件件真实的事上，被慢慢磨出来，一个教练一个教练地带。
  12. No. 005I Bet on People Who Give FirstJun 2026Eight years ago I made a bet that felt naïve: give before you ask. It quietly built my network, my team, and my company.
  13. No. 004Attitude Walks Before AbilityJun 2026Six years taught me to choose attitude over ability. John Maxwell's 5 Levels of Leadership gave me the map for why.
  14. No. 003I Built a Gym Before I Understood MoneyJun 2026I was fluent in the body and silent on the finances. A book I'd avoided for years changed what I think "enough" means.
  15. No. 002Journaling Changed My Decision QualityApr 2026Most of what I called deciding was responding. Writing things down was the only way I learned to tell the difference.
  16. No. 001What Elon Musk Taught Me About CoachingMar 2026First principles thinking isn't just for rockets. Applied to coaching, it changed how we design our whole system at Fitcom.

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